REVIEW: I’LL BE SEEING YOU, BY ELIZABETH BERG

Elizabeth Berg’s father was an Army veteran who was a tough man in every way but one: He showed a great deal of love and tenderness to his wife. Berg describes her parents’ marriage as a romance that lasted for nearly seventy years; she grew up watching her father kiss her mother upon leaving home, and kiss her again the instant he came back. His idea of when he should spend time away from her was never.

But then Berg’s father developed Alzheimer’s disease, and her parents were forced to leave the home they loved and move into a facility that could offer them help. It was time for the couple’s children to offer, to the best of their abilities, practical advice, emotional support, and direction—to, in effect, parent the people who had for so long parented them. It was a hard transition, mitigated at least by flashes of humor and joy. The mix of emotions on everyone’s part could make every day feel like walking through a minefield. Then came redemption.

I’ll Be Seeing You charts the passage from the anguish of loss to the understanding that even in the most fractious times, love can heal, transform, and lead to graceful—and grateful—acceptance.

 
 
 

I’ll Be Seeing You was a tender tale of a family journey. From youth to the end of life and all of the wonderful and sometimes painful moments in between, I felt connected to the very real characters in the story.

I could relate to some of my own travels along the way, from the excitement and joy of first love to the losses of aging that seem to be endless, as one leaves behind one way of life via a series of mini-losses that feel deeply sad and lonely. But also offer the kinds of new beginnings that take adjustment but can feel like more opportunities for growth.

The beautifully written memoir kept me engaged completely as I could almost feel myself going along for the ride. A poignant story with very real lessons to be learned about what lies ahead. 5 stars.

 
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10 thoughts on “REVIEW: I’LL BE SEEING YOU, BY ELIZABETH BERG

  1. Oh my that sounds so good. I will have to check it out.

    Thank you for the post and if you have time please stop by my page for a cover reveal I did for a very good author. I sure would appreciate it.

    Have a great day and a very HAPPY THANKSGIVING!

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  2. I don’t think I was aware of this memoir. Thanks for sharing. Happy Thanksgiving Laurel – this year will be quite different for all of us; it makes me sad but, hoping next year we will all be able to celebrate.

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